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Your spiritual maturity has to do with the understanding of what marriage is, because Marriage is a covenant. In verse 14, God is saying you have dealt wrongly with the wife of your youth, wife of companion and wife of your covenant, meaning Marriage is a Covenant. While in verse 15 God was saying he made man and woman so that they can raise a Godly seed. Please note this broadcast which was sent and I feel it in my heart to share with you guys and it says: The rate at which Marriages collapse now is assuming a social status symbol in our society, which is becoming a thing of Pride.
In no time, people would be throwing divorce parties, and inviting friends and well wishers to celebrate divorce anniversaries. They would choose Aso - ebi, even hire a hall and popular musicians and what have you…. You desire a successful Home, but your choice of friends are forces not to reckon with, think again, be very mindful of where you go for advices. Many would gve but not many would mean well. Your wife is your priority, and everything else including you comes last. You are the teacher, guide, bodyguard, the role model. You are not a deity or a god so you do not need to be worshiped.
You need respect, so earn it by being responsible.
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I know it all. Ladies check your domestic scorecard, if your score is Zero, please stay in your parents house. There is no day divorce can be right, because there is nothing wrong with forgiveness. Whenever you are considering divorce it is because of the hardness of your heart, and it not because of the offence of the spouse but the remedy is taking Heed to your spirit…. As a Christian Please note Matthew Divorce has nothing to do with the wrong done to you but with your inability to obey GOD's word - hardness of heart. There are no grounds that makes divorce the best option.
A soft answer stops beating Prov Honey, daz not ghanna wok. Also if you are carrying emotional baggage, you may think you are available but you are not. Emotional baggages would keep getting in the way of conversations with even remotely interested opposite sex and aint nobody got time to continually hear about your ex John who dumped you or whatever horrid happened in the past. Please let God heal any hurt from your past. You are emotionally involved no matter what you think.
Photo courtesy Doc Love http: Bro John aint interested. The girl just dey pray dey claim the man calling out his name and surname sef.
Another way to check if you are available is to find out if you have unrealistic standards. I wrote a post on that here. Humans are work in progress. Some people are available and eligible but they are NOT accessible. They cannot be reached. Nobody got access to her. Almost like all those sheltered children whose father had this shotgun or a big dog for any man that dared to visit. As a single person, you must be able to be reached. Which is why it is good for instance to belong to a church and a service group.
Too much stories of couples who met whilst serving in church. Chances that you would be seen are low when all you do is come in, worship and after service you just leave. Bae, how is that gonna work? Not that you just rush into your car after every service without interacting with anybody. If you are single, reduce your pace hehehe. But frankly, I met one of my readers who said some people complained that she always walks too fast and with a straight face everytime in church and so was unapproachable.
So please, catwalk ehn. Especially as a lady because these guys just dey try arrange themselves, gather stamina and muster courage to talk to you but before they reach you, you don disappear. He tells the story of how in Bible school, first day he spotted this girl he thought he would like to get to know.
The next day he came early and sat close to the area the girl sat, made it a habit and kept finding reasons to communicate with her even if it meant copying notes he already had and asking questions he already had the answers to.
My dear, you must be accessible as a single. Have hobbies and be involved in them. Obviously, he is not talking clubbing and stuff. There is healthy clean fun. Take yourself out if you have to, somebody might meet you there ooo. Nobody must take you there ooo. And while you are there, please be looking around small small. Like my Rev would say, watch and pray 3. From a recent shooting with Nemorosa.
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Because I have been asked this question time and again, I decided to answer this publicly. Someone else may need the info…. I sincerely believe that marriage is such a HUGE deal so the same we study for our degrees, we also need to study to make this institution which is lifelong work… Now what am I saying? OK where were we? Rev teju also loved him too. Intact, I tell her she loves him more than me, because they both have reserved personalities while Rev and myself are the sanguines yo!!!
My dear, that was where our counselling began ooo. At the very beginning of the relationship… Every time we were together in town, we would visit them, there were many calls, many individual sessions, many counsels, a few quarrel settlings lol, but basically, they were involved. Then they got talking on Bb. Both to inform them and be prayed for…. Cos we were going to see my people and God knows we needed the prayers, counsel, etc being that I had been warned not to bother bringing a Yoruba person… All though the drama that ensued during the whole wedding process, rev was carried VERY along… Ditto pk… What was all that?
Kai… The flight tickets no be here Loooool. The the next day we would be back to Lagos and hubby would fly back to base… Then we also had a session with another of my pastors in school, Rev Bunmi… Choi That one was sex counselling… You will hear tinzzzzz and trust Rev Bunmi na… God bless him he is also a medical doctor hehehe… But I loved it… Then I had to travel to his church too for counselling and marriage interview.
I think hubby had to report me to Rev first and then, of course who born me , I found myself making the trip two weeks to the wedding… Choi. In fact the head of the panel yes they were three now said they were very impressed with our session and that they had not interviewed a couple this in sync before and who seemed to understand and were well prepared for what they were going into. They said so many glowing things about us and coming from Winners, you know that is a big deal yeah?
I remember calling rev very excitedly to gist him… Aside the interview, we did a two day marathon counselling session with different pastors handling different topics. My favorite was the one on communication.
The facilitator did an amazing job. Then my least fave was …………………. So my darling J, we did counselling-a-plenty: Tz our very own Love Dating and Marriage seminar…. And reason ooo… Any reason!!! So that way, we are sure we will keep hearing the right voices all through this journey… If we are going to have the marriage of our dreams, we have to deliberately build it…. Now, of course many people have good or even great marriages without all of this. Oh well, I aint sure but I guess… Me sha, I know say in the multitude of counsel there is safety…. I love mentor-mentee relationships… Especially those within the kingdom.
I was a part of the protocol that went with Rev and I was just smiling as I recalled all that went down as Rev Victor introduced Rev. Can they give such a good report about me too? Is their mentorship in vain or fruitful? All the sweating they sweat on the pulpit, all the time they spend on one-on-ones, am I making them of much or no effect? I love that Pk can say of Pastor B,. There are NO perfect people… I did a lot of thinking this morning… till now. Let them know that their labour over me is NOT in vain… And just incase you are wondering why the focus is on mentors and pastors… That is simple… I Cor Me sef no dey shame as I dey do my own follow follow ooo….
If you go follow blind mentor, na ditch you go enter ooo Matt ! Oh btw, tz two months today. Signing those dotted lines? We are caps off grateful dear God…. I love her to smithereens… And tomorrow is such a special day in her life… YAY!!! And seriously, thank you to the F. B community for all your support and loving… keep spreading the link to the blog. Tz pretty easy http: Booski kicked off her blog just a couple of weeks ago and she has upgraded to dotcomtinz. If you are still on a http: If you are a blogger on a dotcom level and you need a customized email address, holla.
First LDM comes up this Sunday at 4. Where PK gets all these titles is indeed between him and God… hehehe. If you are in Lagos, please attend.
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DCC is in Amuwo Odofin. Call for all the details you need…. You guys thought I was cooking up a storm abi? Pastor M cooked up a tornado yesterday while I was waiting for a blog post…. Choi… Woman of God and hubby keep moving the goal post… I wish I visited.
The post would be live then… Tz also Pastors appreciation day…. Beyond the blog, Ify and I have become sisters though we have never met. One of the many joys of blogging. She has such a beautiful heart. Aside from dropping the most amazing comments and prayers on my blog, i have featured her once here. Hubby and I will definitely be ringing her up later tonight. God bless you and your triple C-delight kids and your amazing hubby.
Infact, she had caused so much trouble in church and PK and others had prayed her outta church. Now dude brought this girl say na she he wan marry… Long story short, he went ahead and married her. Rewind… Before then, dude was a bad boy… Smoking, drinking, the works… Then he got saved and committed in church. He had a thriving business, used to tithe weekly a remarkable cash-range, was crazy about giving and even used to go to PK to ask what projects church was doing atm so he could sow… When dude starts dating the girl and stuff gets serious, business first starts nosediving… Commitment in church reduced… Post-marriage, it got worse.
Then he left church. Went back to his worldly ways. Sometimes, they would park the car on the highway just to fight. It was a bad bad sorry situation… PK has a way with stories so people were laughing. A friend of Aku m late last year was talking about how her bf used to beat her and she wanted to know if he will change. I was overjoyed when he told me that she found the courage to break up with him.
I almost sent her a congratulatory message. She was a real living person she had lived, played and studied with… And she was pregnant when she got married. That story still pains me cos tz just sad… Gosh!!! Another blog reader called me early this year and told me she had broken up with her guy. If there was a marriage would have driven her CRAZY guaranteed cos the drama from the relationship was incredible already. Of course she was hurting but I congratulated her and encouraged her NOT to go back ooo no matter what and trust God for a Good God-man instead.
Infact, I told her if you ever feel like calling him, call me instead. My Pastor Mildred Okonkwo has a dilemma post on her blog. And now bestie is about to displace her as wifey. I love what Diche commented…. Please define the boundaries of relationships. I invest a lot into friendships… Wetin we go dey discus na if you are not a God-lover yourself…? I just recalled a friend of mine. There used to be plenty friction in our relationship but no matter how our heads touch, we still find our way back to each other cos we have an amazingly unshakeable God-foundation in our friendship and in our personal lives too.
Something in me will not let you beyond a level. Oh then ah, sometimes, people make bad decisions by letting good people go for all the flimsiest stupid reasons… And then when their head starts working right, tz already too late… Several friends I have begged to stay in a relationship and work things out… Mba!!!
Daily, we have to make decisions….